A married woman 💝

In our society, a women is someone who should stand behind a man , who should do the things that her family wants. That means no opinion of her not even on her own life.

But moving with the time, changes happens . Nowadays a girl is praising for taking her own decisions , for standing on their own and respecting their point of view too.

 

But what with those women who didn't take the advantages of changes on time. ?

What with those women who didn't get acknowledged on time to how to be independent?

Yes , sometimes a women didn't hope for that independency either because of supporting parents, or supporting husband. 

But no one knows when will time changed and you will face the importance of self stand. 

I met a women a faces this importance for real.. 

She was from a joint family , where all type of work done by any of them , no need of force to do . As it was easy for her too. 

She has a supporting and helping husband too . So we can say she was totally dependent on her family. 

But as you know change is the truth of time.

So one day she asked her husband for her medicine but he refused to get because he has a lot of work . She felt sad because she needs her at the moment . Another day, she felt serious ill , her husband didn't paid any attention to her as he was busy in his work. She was away from her joint family too. Her children are little chunks at that time...that means no one to help, and she never had gone before to do her own work yet. 

But then, she realize the truth that she can't be such dependent on anyone or she'll left her life..So one day she gets out of the house collecting some courage because she has to go some far from her house .

And she did! 

 

I know you think that's not a big deal ..oh yeah ! But only for us. Not for her . A woman who comes from outer village to a big city .. that's hard to get catch up with people in public transport . To get familiar with the places in an unknown city. To find out the place where she need to go..

That was not enough , when she started standing on her own for fulfilling her needs, there is one more dependency left on her.

She was still dependent on  husband for money. As she thought he'll never say no to her. 

But who knows how worst your situation can be. And one day that's happens too.

She asked her husband for money to get some clothes and he said " I have no extra money for your monthly fulfillings i have to spent on household chores and am not earning that much.

She get Astonished as she never expected this day will ever come  in her life . 

But still, she Didn't get lose herself , she stand by it , and faces the situation with courage as she already had taken one step for herself before too.. 

But now the situation is not as same , earning is not a cup of tea for her , as she is not graduated from English medium and also no one to support her. 

Then she think to start collecting in a new way!

 She started saving from monthly spendings and  collecting them and she made a real bank balance . 

That's a real inspiration !

When no one is behind you , there's always a god to support you .

When she told me this whole story this make my teary eyes to flow . I mean like this really happens , it's impossible to say a woman from village gets enough comfortable with city life , that now she not only stand for herself , for her children, and for her husband too..

 Now, in her house she spent a lot in every things , even she buys those household things which is a duty of her husband, she also spent in monthly expenses and not only this, now she helps her husband too.

That's a really big thing to say that you can develop yourself at any stage , at any moment and anywhere , whenever the situation wants you. Just having a confidence on yourself that you can do it  and by having a faith in god that he makes me to do it.

 Hope this brings a smile 😊 and a motivation to you that you are capable of anything to do , at any situation.